Character, Part One: What is Character?

By Carol Dickey
The dictionary defines character as a distinctive trait, quality, kind or sort, behavior-pattern, reputation, status and position.

Biblical character finds its source in the nature of our Creator rather than in the behavioral pattern of man. We want to find in others such virtues as honesty, loyalty, self-control, faithfulness, patience and kindness. We may not want to commit to these actions ourselves, but we certainly want to count on these characteristics in the people we associate with.

Character demands a commitment to do what is right, because it is the right thing to do as defined by God. In order to become men and women of character, we must surrender to God’s ownership.

Our character is on display to a watching world.

Without character, people will soon destroy one another; eventually the friction of our differences will take its toll, and individuals who seem destined to be together will tear each other apart.

There is no clearer measure of our character than the health of our relationships. Healthy, long-term relationships are evidence of the presence of strong character. The pursuit of character means having a genuine concern for the people around us. It requires that we serve them. (Matt. 23:11) “He who is greatest among you shall be your servant.”

A person of character is someone who quickly owns up to his or her mistake instead of blaming others. A person of character is quick to give credit to the person who originated an idea rather than taking credit for him or herself.

We find ourselves wanting to be like them. We enjoy their company.

When there is character, there is compatibility. Where character is lacking, there is conflict.